Model Emily Ratajkowski Reflects on the Pitfalls of Being Desired

In her debut book, “My Body,” Emily Ratajkowski delves into the story of Audrey Munson, famously known as “America’s first supermodel,” to shed light on the dangers of being idolized.

Munson, who posed for renowned sculptors in the early 20th century, now stands immortalized in sculptures across America. However, her life took a tragic turn, leading to attempted suicide and years of obscurity in a psychiatric hospital.

Ratajkowski draws parallels between Munson’s story and her own experiences. Despite not facing obscurity, Ratajkowski has been objectified, her image used to sell various products. With millions of Instagram followers and a modeling portfolio emphasizing lingerie over high fashion, she has been portrayed as a modern-day sex symbol. This portrayal has led to both gratification and psychological distress for Ratajkowski.

The book explores Ratajkowski’s journey, including her rise to fame after appearing nude in Robin Thicke’s “Blurred Lines” music video and her encounters with objectification and exploitation. She recounts incidents like being paid to accompany a billionaire to the Super Bowl, highlighting the complexities of desire and validation.

Ratajkowski’s essays navigate the nuances of power dynamics and vulnerability, offering insights into everyday situations often shaped by patriarchy and capitalism. She candidly discusses instances of sexual assault, reflecting on the shame and unresolved feelings associated with them.

Despite grappling with the industry’s predatory nature and societal pressures, Ratajkowski continues her modeling career. She acknowledges her complicity in perpetuating certain standards but emphasizes the importance of women navigating within existing frameworks to succeed.

Through her essays, Ratajkowski challenges societal norms and offers a candid portrayal of the highs and lows of being desired in today’s world.